We judge so many people when really we are judging ourselves. We live in a culture where we point fingers and blame others for what is happening. I am just as guilty of doing this.
If you believe in God or a Higher consciousness then you already realize that we are all connected. We are One and the Same. When I look at you, I see me. Sometimes I like what I see - other times I don't. Either way it's still me I am seeing. When I see something that feels wrong or that I have a strong negative emotion about, then I have to look within myself and ask what is it in me that has caused this negative feeling? After all, I am the one having the feeling. I am the one seeing what I don't like. So it has nothing to do with you/with them. It is all within me that these feelings are happening.
You are my mirror, reflecting back to me those things that are inside of me - the good and the things I need to release.
It's not about you - It's about me.
Much Love,
~Khristine